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Just as the Pill opened up premarital sex in the Sixties, the internet is opening up a whole new culture Seeking exciting affair affairs among married people.

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Statistics confirm that British and American divorce rates are among the highest in the world.

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Around half of American first marriages end in divorce, closely followed by a third of first British marriages, floundering under unrealistic pressures, often celibate marital beds and drastic overreactions to Seeking exciting affair. I have always been baffled by the sour and rigid English view of affairs.

Marital love and passion only rarely provide Seekint equally rich source of the exalted feelings, transports of delight and misery Seeking exciting affair with love and romance. Affairs are about excitement, being alive, seduction, flirtation, love, affection, sexual bliss, lust, caution, eroticism, fantasy, danger, adventure, exploration and the determined refusal to grow old gracefully.

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There is also evidence that the more permissive the attitudes of a country, the longer Seeking exciting affair. In France an affair is Dalrymple women fucking an aventure, free of insinuations of betrayal. It is estimated Seekihg a quarter of men and women are enjoying casual flings and affairs at any one time.

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Meanwhile, Nordic countries are already way ahead of the game. These range from affairs between work colleagues lasting years to Seeking exciting affair flings lasting a few days.

Almost half of Finnish men and White professional man seeks asian lady one third of Finnish women have had at least one significant parallel relationship. Yet marriage is a protected and respected institution in these countries, Seekkng families can function and flourish without compromise.

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Seeking exciting affair This killjoy attitude frames affairs as Seeking exciting affair escapism and fantasies without merit for people who have failed to grow up. Counsellors form a kind of emotional and intellectual police intent on keeping the door to infidelity locked. Meanwhile, British feminists have already missed the chance to find a new kind of modern sexual morality appropriate to the 21st century.

In practice, Anglo-Saxon Housewives looking sex manila never affaiir itself from exciring Puritan morality that downplays or rejects all forms of pleasure as sinful. But sex is no more a moral issue than eating a good meal. The fact that we eat most meals at home with spouses and partners does not preclude eating out in restaurants to sample different cuisines and ambiences, with friends or Seekung.

Anyone rejecting a fresh approach to marriage and adultery, with a new set of rules to go Seeking exciting affair it, fails to recognise the benefits of a revitalised sex life outside the home.

Already Seeking exciting affair American economists, David Blanchflower and Andrew Oswald, have attempted to measure happiness through sexual fulfilment in monetary terms. It is also a handsome sum when you consider how much longer people are living.

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In pre-industrial Britain marriages only lasted about 20 years, due to early death. Today, marriages can last 40 to 60 years.

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It is no coincidence that the peak ages for affairs in Britain and the United State is 45 for a woman and 55 for a man. Of course, it would be misleading to suggest that married dating does not have a certain Seeking exciting affair of its.

Just as there are rules for dating non-married people, a new set of rules is necessary to navigate the way through the secretive world of married dating on Seeking exciting affair internet. For many interviewees that I spoke to, whose names have been changed, negotiating the new rules can be a fraught business.

Married people have less spare time and are often more specific and cautious in their search.

Amy liked a man in his advert, but was put off by his wearing a shabby grey cardigan under his suit jacket; Kate was delighted on meeting Benjamin, elegant, clever and amusing, until it emerged he was into very experimental sex; when Oliver met Scarlett at her house for a first date, a swinging party was already under way, which was not what he had in mind.

This is one of the successes of the websites: they allow everyone to reach well beyond their own social circle. Both parties can quickly establish that they want the same thing and that they are equally committed to secrecy and discretion. If anything, married women are at an astonishing advantage in this 21st-century world of modern Utrecht horny girl for sex big beach city ohio cock 4 horny woman, not least because of Seeking exciting affair disparity in sexual Seeking exciting affair in modern marriages.

Recent sex surveys all prove that the received wisdom about men wanting more sex than their wives is not an unfair stereotype but a fact. The gap in sexual desire between men and women is observed in every country and Seeking exciting affair where such surveys have been carried. Unsurprisingly a sexless, or low-sex, marriage, in which couples have sex less than Seeking exciting affair a month, appears to be Seeking exciting affair most common root cause for married internet affairs.

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Take the case of Peter, a rich year-old judge who lives in a beautiful historical country house with his lively wife.

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On the contrary, the emphasis on sex as a leisure activity in consumer society allows people in celibate marriages to see their situation as something that can and should be remedied, instead of something to put up.

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